{"id":517,"date":"2022-06-17T21:09:17","date_gmt":"2022-06-17T13:09:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/club.ellenccworld.com\/?p=517"},"modified":"2022-12-19T20:06:31","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T12:06:31","slug":"%e7%a9%ba%e6%9c%8d%e5%93%a1%e9%9d%a2%e8%ab%87%e6%99%82%e8%a2%ab%e5%95%8f%e5%88%b0%e3%80%8e%e5%9c%a8%e5%b7%a5%e4%bd%9c%e4%b8%ad%e5%a6%82%e6%9e%9c%e4%bd%a0%e9%81%87%e5%88%b0%e5%be%88%e5%88%81%e9%91%bd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/club.ellenccworld.com\/?p=517","title":{"rendered":"\u7a7a\u670d\u54e1\u9762\u8ac7\u6642\u88ab\u554f\u5230\u300e\u5728\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e2d\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u9047\u5230\u5f88\u5201\u947d\u7684\u4e0a\u53f8\u4f60\u6703\u600e\u9ebc\u8fa6\uff1f\u300f| \u7a7a\u59d0\u9762\u8a66\u6e96\u5099"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u9762\u8ac7\u6642\u8ac7\u53ca\u904e\u53bb\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e2d\u7684\u8ca0\u9762\u7d93\u9a57-\u4e00\u500b\u8b1b\u9ec3\u8272\u7b11\u8a71\u7684\u540c\u4e8b, \u4ed6\u600e\u9ebc\u8655\u88e1\u5462?<\/p>\n<p>Cynthia\u8001\u5e2b &#8211; \u822a\u7a7a\u8077\u524d\u57f9\u8a13\u5e2b \u2027 \u524d\u5361\u9054\u822a\u7a7a\u7a7a\u670d\u54e1\uff0e\u524d\u9577\u69ae\u822a\u7a7a\u52a9\u7406\u5ea7\u8259\u9577<\/p>\n<p>\u9762\u8ac7\u60c5\u5883\uff1aFinal Interview- 1 candidates with 2 interviewers.<br \/>\nInterviewer A: You said you always look on the bright side. In this case, how did you deal with a difficult boss?<br \/>\n\u4f60\u525b\u525b\u8aaa\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u5f88\u6b63\u5411\u7684\u4eba\uff1f\u5728\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e2d\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u9047\u5230\u5f88\u5201\u947d\u7684\u4e0a\u53f8\u4f60\u6703\u600e\u9ebc\u8fa6\u5462\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>Fiona: Oh, I think my boss is okay\u2026\u2026<br \/>\n\u5176\u5be6\u6211\u8001\u95c6\u9084\u597d\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Interviewer A: Oh, come on, it can\u2019t be\u2026 Be honest!<br \/>\n\u5c11\u4f86\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u8b1b\u5834\u9762\u8a71\u3002<br \/>\nFiona: hummm\u2026\u2026I would probably say my boss always look after me instead of being difficult. My father works in Manufacturing Industry and he always mentions \u201cquality products require detail attention.\u201d I took his word as my motto for work, so I see the advice from my boss as a potential develop opportunity.<br \/>\n\u8207\u5176\u8aaa\u662f\u5201\u947d\uff0c\u4e0d\u5982\u8aaa\u6211\u7684\u4e0a\u53f8\u5c0d\u6211\u5f88\u7167\u9867\u3002\u6211\u7684\u7236\u89aa\u5728\u88fd\u9020\u696d\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u4ed6\u5e38\u5e38\u544a\u8a34\u6211\u300e\u53ea\u6709\u56b4\u683c\u7684\u8981\u6c42\uff0c\u624d\u6703\u6709\u5408\u683c\u7684\u7522\u54c1\u3002\u300f\u6211\u5c0d\u9019\u4e00\u9ede\u975e\u5e38\u8a8d\u540c\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u6703\u628a\u4e0a\u53f8\u5c0d\u6211\u7684\u5efa\u8b70\u7576\u6210\u662f\u5b78\u7fd2\u9032\u6b65\u7684\u6a5f\u6703\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Interviewer B: Can you be more particular?<br \/>\n\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u66f4\u7cbe\u78ba\u4e00\u9ede\u7684\u8aaa\u660e\u55ce ?<br \/>\nFiona\uff1aHummmm\u2026 I remember once we held a wedding of celebrity, I must say I was out of control and full of attitude when I looked back. I didn\u2019t appreciate my colleagues\u2019 work and kept trying to force them to take my opinion as the only thought, so I adjusted everything I felt it\u2019s not good enough without discussing with others in the team. One day, my manager Loise told me she thinks I could take the job and it better to let others take over. I felt hurt and thought that was so unfair because I was handling this case in the easier and faster way. But Louis told me \u201cNo matter how hard you think you did, you should stop right on the spot. Domineer over the others without respect is absolutely not appropriate nor professional.\u201d I was really upset and it took me a long time to think about my behavior, and that\u2019s the moment I understood why I felt not supported. I went to apologize to my team members one by one, and most importantly, I learned to listen to the others more since then.<br \/>\n\u6211\u8a18\u5f97\u6709\u4e00\u6b21\u6211\u5011\u5718\u968a\u8ca0\u8cac\u4e00\u500b\u85dd\u4eba\u7684\u5a5a\u79ae\u4f01\u756b\uff0c\u73fe\u5728\u60f3\u8d77\u4f86\u7576\u6642\u6211\u7684\u614b\u5ea6\u771f\u7684\u4e0d\u5927\u597d\u3002\u5728\u5de5\u4f5c\u7684\u904e\u7a0b\u4e2d\uff0c\u6211\u4e0d\u4f46\u6c92\u6709\u8a66\u5716\u8ddf\u540c\u4e8b\u5408\u4f5c\uff0c\u9084\u5805\u6301\u5927\u5bb6\u90fd\u8981\u807d\u6211\u7684\u6307\u4ee4\u505a\u4e8b\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u53ea\u6709\u6211\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u624d\u5920\u5b8c\u6574\u3002\u6709\u4e00\u5929\u6211\u7684\u7d93\u7406 Louise \u544a\u8a34\u6211\u5979\u89ba\u5f97\u6211\u4e0d\u9069\u5408\u5e36\u9818\u5718\u968a\uff0c\u8981\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u4f86\u63a5\u624b\u9019\u500b\u4f01\u756b\u3002\u7576\u6642\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u5f88\u53d7\u50b7\u4e5f\u5f88\u4e0d\u5e73\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u660e\u660e\u5c31\u5f88\u52aa\u529b\u5730\u7528\u6700\u5feb\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u4f86\u505a\u4e8b\u4e86\u3002\u4f46 Louise \u8aaa\u300e\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u5f97\u591a\u597d\uff0c\u73fe\u5728\u90fd\u7d66\u6211\u505c\u4e0b\u4f86\u3002\u4e00\u8a00\u5802\u4e0d\u662f\u5c0a\u91cd\u540c\u4e8b\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u4e0d\u5c08\u696d\u7684\u614b\u5ea6\u3002\u300f\u6211\u807d\u4e86\u5f88\u96e3\u904e\uff0c\u82b1\u4e86\u5f88\u9577\u7684\u6642\u9593\u4f86\u5be9\u8996\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u90a3\u4e5f\u662f\u6211\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7406\u89e3\u5230\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u540c\u4e8b\u7e3d\u662f\u4e0d\u5927\u9858\u610f\u652f\u6301\u6211\u3002\u4e4b\u5f8c\u6211\u4e00\u4e00\u5411\u5718\u968a\u7684\u6210\u54e1\u9053\u6b49\uff0c\u4e5f\u5b78\u6703\u4e86\u5de5\u4f5c\u4e2d\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b \u2013 \u61c2\u5f97\u50be\u807d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Interviewer A: Your manager doesn\u2019t seem difficult at all; do you have another example?<br \/>\n\u4f60\u7684\u7d93\u7406\u807d\u8d77\u4f86\u4e00\u9ede\u90fd\u4e0d\u96e3\u76f8\u8655\u554a\uff0c\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u5176\u4ed6\u7684\u4f8b\u5b50\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>Fiona\uff1aHummmm\u2026 Maybe not with my manager but my colleague. I had one major conflict with my male colleague Jonny once. It was 2 years ago, I was fresh in the company, Jonny was very kind of me in the beginning. One day, he told me a dirty joke, I felt not comfortable but I didn\u2019t say anything. I didn\u2019t want to overreact, so I just ignored it. Few days after, I was talking to another girl at the corner, he passed by and slap my butt for no good reason. I was so mad at him and nearly yelling to him. But Jonny thought I was overacted, he said \u201chey, no big deal!\u201d The other girl who witnessed this told me I should bring it out to my manager, and I did. We should not keep quiet and run away from Sexual Harassment. 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